The worst thing that could ever happen to you approaching in a bar.

A lot of guys that are new at Game are afraid to approach women because they fear the possibility of rejection, of being made fun of, and that awkward feeling of shame when a woman walks away. It’s more than humbling, It makes you feel like a loser.

However I beg to differ. Here’s why:

3 weeks ago I approached two women sitting on a couch at Eighteenth Street Lounge. I ran my regular opening line and then tried to neg immediately — Now understand, I don’t normally ever use negs anymore, but I felt like experimenting with some old school shit that night. So anyway, I pull out my neg by saying to the obstacle, “I can’t believe you hang out with this girl.” Right after I finished delivering that neg, she cocks her hand back and then brings it to my face with enough force to potentially knock me out (yes, it was a hard fucking slap to the face).

I was so dumbfounded by what had just happened, in disbelief I thought to myself, “did this cunt-bag really hit me??.” Out of confusion and anger, I dared her to do it again; because I simply couldn’t believe it. And of course, she slaps me again. I stared in dead in the eyes, and the third hard slap smacks my face. After that third slap, I tell her, “if this were on the street, somewhere else, I’d punch you.” She slaps me two more times.

I decide to summon the bouncers rather than punch this cunt in the face — as much as she deserved to get punched square in the face, I couldn’t bring myself to hit her, even if she is a rotten cunt. The bouncers agreed to throw her out after I explained to them that she assaulted me because she was obviously over served — “Over Served” is the key word by the way, when you want to get someone kicked out of a bar/club. The bouncers and I look all over for this bitch but no luck. She disappeared.

Later I meet up with the owner of Eighteenth Street Lounge to talk about the situation I had dealt with and he buys me a beer out of condolence.

So there you have it. The worst possible thing that could happen to you if an approach goes sour: you get slapped in the face; and If you play it cool and explain it to the owner, you get a free beer. It really isn’t so bad in the end.